sex coach. One night after having some drinks, we went back to his place. It started out in his living room with some kinky fun. I had him face down on a chair and I was smacking his ass. Not too hard of a slapping… actually, he had to encourage me a little until I found the courage to go harder. Eventually, we took things up to his bedroom. We hooked up a little on his bed. I was on top of him. This is when things really got hot. With me on top and him inside me, he started to talk me through dominating him. He wanted me to slap him across the face. I did. I didn’t do it hard. I think I was afraid of hurting him. This was a whole new experience and I wasn’t sure of how hard I was supposed to do it or how much pain he wanted to experience. He told me to hit him harder and harder after every slap. I did. I went from his right side to the left side, back and forth, all while still having sex on top of him. I could feel this warm rush inside my core that was creeping up from my vagina through my body and out my hands onto his face. I started to take over. I no longer held back. I smacked his face with this power. I felt an intense release that I have never felt before. I started to run my fingers down his chest while looking into his eyes with this fierce energy coming out of me. He told me my eyes changed color at this point and that my facial expression changed. He knew I let go. I was talking dirty to him while I kept slapping his face. Demanding that he take it harder. Demanding that I don’t care if it hurts, I am in control and he will take it. I then started to bite his nipples hard. I ran my nails down his chest leaving marks. Back to slapping his face. All the time, he kept thanking me. “Thank you mistress,” he said. He meant it. With what I was doing to him, with controlling how I was having sex on top of him, I was so empowered. It was also scary. It was like I was releasing an inhibition. I mean – there were so many emotions flowing out of me at once. And him allowing me to be this free was absolutely amazing. I was this raging woman controlling this man physically and emotionally. I have never done anything like this. This was sexy punishment with physical pain. Damn, it was hot.
Want to Dominate Your S.O.?BDSM is not something you can just have a couple of beers and fumble your way through. Here are Nicole’s tips for being a domme in the bedroom.
- The Dominant Is Not (Really) In Charge
- Commmunication and Safety
- Start Gentle
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